Sunday, November 25, 2007

Thanksgiving

Happy Thanksgiving! We had an eventful weekend! Maya is now 11 weeks old.

On Wednesday night, Aunt Kari, Uncle Jeffrey, and Grandma and Grandpa came over for dinner.

Meeting Uncle Jeff while in her straight jacket, er, swaddling blanket:



Unfortunately, Maya wasn't in the best of moods.



Although she was able to be cheered up by some of her favorite toys.



And TV cheered her up. Maya REALLY likes TV. It's a problem (she's craning her neck to see the TV while Aunt Kari is trying to get in some quality time!).



Maya's first Thanksgiving was fun! Besides all the good food, she got to meet so many new people, and hang out with some familiar folks too.



Maya has some cousins who came, too.





It was great to see Uncle Dan, and meet Aunt Jenny.



Thanks to Uncle Jeff, who took all these pictures with his fabulous camera!





I guess Daddy was still hungry after dinner!



It *was* pretty funny.



Or maybe Merov was just making funny faces?





Grandpa was helping to keep Maya happy as the night came to an end (during the critical Fussy Period).



We went back to Grandma and Grandpa's house the next day for brunch.



And then Maya got to hang with Daddy and the boys while Mommy and the girls had their nails done.



All in all, it was a great day! And a great weekend!

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Fun at Russ and Beth's!

Saturday afternoon we got to visit our friends Russ and Beth, and their 6-week old son Owen (Maya's future boyfriend). It was a lot of fun!

Meeting Owen for the first time! Wonder Twin powers, activate!!



Owen slept almost the whole time! What a good little napper.



Maya was not impressed. Napping is for losers.



Maya had a little snack in the family room.



Then we went for a nice walk in the park!



They actually managed to coordinate their naps at the same time! Aw!



Perhaps it was the beer that caused the Scream Off?





Thanks, Russ, Beth and Owen for having us! It was so fun to see you guys and meet Owen and your family!

Activity mat fun

Monday, November 19, 2007

9 weeks

Lots to catch up on. This week Maya has become much more interested in toys, and will even give her favorites big smiles. She especially likes rattling toys, and the Rae Bunny her future boyfriend Robbie gave her is her favorite. She also smiles at herself sometimes in the mirror.

She's getting much better at holding her head up. Here's a nice little video of her sitting in her Bumbo:



She's getting better organized with naps. She'll still take 30-45 minute naps on bad days, but 2 hour naps are coming more often. Nights are so much better than they were a month ago. Bad nights now involve general restlessness instead of screaming on and off for 8 hours (which ended around the 5 week mark), though she often fights bedtime. Good nights involve a 5-6 hour stretch of sleep and then around 4 hours and then another few until she's up for the day around 8:30 or 9am. Morning is the best time for smiles! She still gets the Evening Fussies but she told us that she plans to give that up in another month.

Here are some 9 week pictures.



We tried the Bumbo out early in the week. She wasn't so into it, though it was kinda neat to see her sitting up.







Morning bed head:



We then tried the Bumbo later in the week, & she seemed to dig it.








No pictures, please!!



She really likes being carried around the house. She also likes looking at herself in the mirror. This was our attempt at getting her smile on camera. Foiled yet again!



The carrier makes a good nap time spot and she has napped up to 3 hours at a time in this thing!



Yes, yes she is a cutie.

Friday, November 16, 2007

Article on feeding solids

No pictures today, just a good article from 2005 (Ugh, formatting issues!)...

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/9646449/

Experts seek to debunk baby food myths

Little evidence supports ‘any particular way of doing things

Oct. 9, 2005

Ditch the rice cereal and mashed peas, and make way for enchiladas, curry and even — gasp! — hot peppers. It's time to discard everything you think you know about feeding babies. It turns out most advice parents get about weaning infants onto solid foods — even from pediatricians — is more myth than science.

That's right, rice cereal may not be the best first food. Peanut butter doesn't have to wait until after the first birthday. Offering fruits before vegetables won't breed a sweet tooth. And strong spices? Bring 'em on.

"There's a bunch of mythology out there about this," says Dr. David Bergman, a Stanford University pediatrics professor. "There's not much evidence to support any particular way of doing things."

Word of that has been slow to reach parents and the stacks of baby books they rely on to navigate this often intimidating period of their children's lives. But that may be changing.

As research increasingly suggests a child's first experiences with food shape later eating habits, doctors say battling obesity and improving the American diet may mean debunking the myths and broadening babies' palates.

It's easier — and harder — than it sounds. Easier because experts say 6-month-olds can eat many of the same things their parents do. Harder because it's tough to find detailed guidance for nervous parents.

"Parents have lost touch with the notion that these charts are guides, not rules," says Rachel Brandeis, a spokeswoman for the American Dietetic Association. "Babies start with a very clean palate and it's your job to mold it."

It's easy to mistake that for a regimented process. Most parents are told to start rice cereal at 6 months, then slowly progress to simple vegetables, mild fruits and finally pasta and meat.

Ethnic foods and spices are mostly ignored by the guidelines — cinnamon and avocados are about as exotic as it gets — and parents are warned off potential allergens such as nuts and seafood for at least a year.

Yet experts say children over 6 months can handle most anything, with a few caveats: Be cautious if you have a family history of allergies; introduce one food at a time and watch for any problems; and make sure the food isn't a choking hazard.

Parents elsewhere in the world certainly take a more freewheeling approach, often starting babies on heartier, more flavorful fare — from meats in African countries to fish and radishes in Japan and artichokes and tomatoes in France.

The difference is cultural, not scientific, says Dr. Jatinder Bhatia, a member of the American Academy of Pediatrics' nutrition committee who says the American approach suffers from a Western bias that fails to reflect the nation's ethnic diversity.

Bhatia says he hopes his group soon will address not only that, but also ways to better educate parents about which rules must be followed and which ones are only suggestions.

Rayya Azarbeygui, a 35-year-old Lebanese immigrant living in New York, isn't waiting. After her son was born last year, she decided he should eat the same foods she does — heavily seasoned Middle Eastern dishes like hummus and baba ghanoush.

"My pediatrician thinks I'm completely crazy," says Azarbeygui, whose son is now 13 months old. "But you know, he sees my child thriving and so says, 'You know what, children in India eat like that. Why not yours?'"

How to introduce healthy children to solid food has rarely been studied. Even the federal government has given it little attention; dietary guidelines apply only to children 2 and older.

In a review of the research, Nancy Butte, a pediatrics professor at Baylor College of Medicine, found that many strongly held assumptions — such as the need to offer foods in a particular order or to delay allergenic foods — have little scientific basis.

Take rice cereal, for example. Under conventional American wisdom, it's the best first food. But Butte says iron-rich meat — often one of the last foods American parents introduce — would be a better choice.

Dr. David Ludwig of Children's Hospital Boston, a specialist in pediatric nutrition, says some studies suggest rice and other highly processed grain cereals actually could be among the worst foods for infants.

"These foods are in a certain sense no different from adding sugar to formula. They digest very rapidly in the body into sugar, raising blood sugar and insulin levels" and could contribute to later health problems, including obesity, he says.

The lack of variety in the American approach also could be a problem. Exposing infants to more foods may help them adapt to different foods later, which Ludwig says may be key to getting older children to eat healthier.

Food allergy fears get some of the blame for the bland approach. For decades doctors have said the best way to prevent allergies is to limit infants to bland foods, avoiding seasonings, citrus, nuts and certain seafood.

But Butte's review found no evidence that children without family histories of food allergies benefit from this. Others suspect avoiding certain foods or eating bland diets actually could make allergies more likely. Some exposure might be a good thing.

And bring on the spices. Science is catching up with the folklore that babies in the womb and those who are breast-fed taste — and develop a taste for — whatever Mom eats. So experts say if Mom enjoys loads of oregano, baby might, too.

That's been Maru Mondragon's experience. The 40-year-old Mexican indulged on spicy foods while pregnant with her youngest son, 21-month-old Russell, but not while carrying his 3-year-old brother, Christian.

Christian has a mild palate while his younger brother snacks on jalapenos and demands hot salsa on everything.

"If it is really spicy, he cries, but still keeps eating it," says Mondragon, who moved to Denver four years ago.

That's the sort of approach Bhatia says more parents should know about. Parents should view this as a chance to encourage children to embrace healthy eating habits and introduce them to their culture and heritage.

"So you eat a lot of curry," he says, "try junior on a mild curry."

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Sunday, November 11, 2007

Kim's baby shower

Yesterday we took a trip up to Albany for mom's friend Kim's baby shower! Kim is due with a girl at the end of December. Yay for babies!


All ready for a road trip!


With the beautiful mama-to-be Kim:


Talking to daddy:


With friend Emy:


With friend Jenn (also due at the same time as Kim!):


Maya liked Aunt Jenn!



Ready to head home (dad looks like he's scared of her!):



All in all, it was a good day. There was some random fussing, including some crying when strangers held her or talked to her, which is a new behavior. But Maya managed to sleep while being held during the afternoon but thankfully, she did not have any meltdowns! Yay! She did relatively ok on the drive home. We had a few pit stops for comforting and feeding and she managed to get some sleep. A good day all around! We're anxiously awaiting the arrival of both Kim's and Jenn's little ones!!

Friday, November 9, 2007

2 months

We've made it to 2 months without any serious injuries, traumas, etc. Yay!

Still trying to get her hands in her mouth even during the dreaded Tummy Time:



The bib is because she is the Spit Up Queen and we got tired of changing her outfit every few hours.



Sorry these are blurry. Her smile is extremely elusive and very difficult to capture because as soon as the camera comes out she stares at it, instead of the person who is trying to get her to smile:









Half a smile, half a fuss:






The famous Deer in Headlights expression:



And, last but not least, Maya had her 2 month checkup today. She is now 11lbs 2oz, 23 1/4 inches long, and her head is 15.5 inches around. She shows incredible eye contact, coos, and smiles. She also got some vaccinations, which she was not fond of in the least. She is SUCH a drama queen. When we got home, she couldn't even wait for her first dose of Tylenol before passing out from all the excitement.